“Adaptive Leadership” with Harvard Kennedy School Fellow Mercy Atieno Odongo in Dubai

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Adapt or Die? Exercise Leadership to Stay Alive in Dangerous Times

Most of us would have heard “adapt or die.” The past few years have shown us just how true that saying rings, especially when it comes to leadership. Why is adaptive leadership so critical in the world? Joining Anne Pratt from Dubai is Mercy Atieno Odongo, a Harvard Kennedy School Edward Mason fellow and Obama Foundation, Africa Emerging Leader, and the Founder of the Adaptive Leadership Foundation. 

In an engaging conversation, Mercy explains what adaptive leadership means to her, emphasizing the leader’s role to distinguish between technical and adaptive challenges and act accordingly. She also shares snippets of her leadership journey that shaped her worldview and purpose-driven career. 

Tune in and learn how you can practice leadership in a powerful way by mobilizing people to tackle tough challenges and thrive!

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thank you for joining us from around the world my name is Anne Pratt I'm formerly from South Africa and I relocated abroad
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to attend a Harvard Advanced leadership initiative Fellowship in beautiful Boston in the United States of America
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a thoughtful board leader in this episode today is based in Dubai she is a
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Harvard Kennedy School Edward Mason fellow an Obama Foundation Africa
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emerging leader and is the founder of the Adaptive Leadership Foundation
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she is also an accomplished Diplomat and has served her country Kenya in the
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Ministry of Foreign Affairs and is currently serving in Dubai stay with us as she shares with us her
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adaptive leadership challenge and why moving fast in trying to tackle these
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tough big challenges is often slow and moving slow is often fast
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our childhood slap at age seven in rural Kenya defined her career the difference
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and the distinction between Technical and adaptive leadership challenges and
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how Mandela's lesson of separating oneself from one's role has empowered
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her career we warmly welcome my dear friend and a co-creator of This Global
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Mandela leadership movement for change mercy atino odongo and welcome to
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Leading boldly into the future Mercy welcome it's so wonderful to have you
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here with us from Dubai thank you for spending time on your precious evening
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and lovely to have you with us thank you very much and for having me it's a great honor to share my
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experience with you that's awesome I just wanted to share with our audience that Mercy has spent 14 years in the
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Foreign Affairs Ministry for the Republic of Kenya she was selected by the Obama foundation for the inaugural
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class of 2018 as one of 200 emerging leaders in Africa and she is a coach for
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transformational leadership in the 21st century for emerging leaders across the continent Mercy is so wonderful to have
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you share your leadership wisdom and insights with us and I thought a wonderful starting point would be to
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share some of your career highlights and what has brought you to this current moment thank you very much and for the
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opportunity number one as you said my career has been spunning for 19 years
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public service that's correct and then within this period I was privileged to
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go to Harvard Kennedy School during that period they as you know I
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got to learn or get to some courses that were very fundamental in exercising
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leadership so one of the two courses was exercising leadership politics of change and Leadership from inside out and the
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experience that I've acquired I felt like it is Honorable to pay
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forward for people who've not been privileged to to get this idea because one of the things that stood out for me
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personally was the idea of adaptive challenges and Technical fixes technical
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challenges and adaptive challenges so that worked for me has been eye-opening so when Harvard
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executive program uh partnered with us to help them shape the narrative again
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for the emerging leaders for Africa to design a course for Africa 21st century
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leaders for Africa we did that in 2018 and 2019 we trained over 140 emerging
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leaders from Nigeria The Gambia Somalia Egypt Kenya and some from the US and it
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was amazing experience so that gave me the impetus that this idea needs to find
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Space and that is what led me now to the idea of creating a foundation for leadership
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to empower now young leaders across Nations I mean that's remarkable and of
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course we know that you know Africa is um a nation that is Hungry for Change
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and has enormous challenges too um I was wondering personally Mercy what
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have you found to be your greatest leadership challenge in your in your career I mean you spent 19 years but 14
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years in the ministry you know of Foreign Affairs What What In exercising
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leadership has been your greatest challenge um during that time one of the the
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greatest challenges that I still grapple with to date is my inability to to frame
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issues that are transformational in a way that finds space
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with the authority figures to get the buying and and part of the the challenges I when I frame issues I come
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out as a very strong person and and that to a greater extent
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has been a challenges some would view it as a threat others would be it as aggression so to some extent that has
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impacted on my ability to form alliances build Partnerships and be able to Rally
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around the course that can bring impactful changes okay can you share a practical example
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with us I mean do you have an example that comes to mind interesting I'll give
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you an example when we were selected as you said from a pool of 210 000 applicants for the Obama Foundation we
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are put in a group of four people we are given we were told to to come up with ideas
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right so in the process of coming with ideas our ideas were collected 200 of us
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then they were condensed to 40. out of those 40 one of my the idea that I had found space and that is where the
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Adaptive Leadership Foundation comes in the idea was to be able to bring change using data because we realized that now
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there's a lot of of misinformation and and not basic decision based on facts so
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we sort of like we were tasked to give the resource that you need the kind of
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people that you need in your team so I said I needed somebody who is good in resource mobilization I needed
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somebody's good in technological um technology I needed somebody who is
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good in branding because I'm a strategy person so those who perform part of my team so we were
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put with four of us in in my team and in the process we we were curating this
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this idea and one thing that was very which I consider leadership failure is yes we
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went through the process we we presented our idea but after that we never became
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together why because maybe earlier on on my part to get the buying in in seeing
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the sense of what we are doing or it was too fast for rushing in trying to mobilize people to get in and the end of
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the lessons that I came out with it's good to Pace your issues step by step
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Don't Rush people people are different developmental stages and sometimes when
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you push people too much they tend to reject even the idea that would be so it's good to get a buying so you give
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people work get the buying from the people right from the onset so that it doesn't appear like it is hands or
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masses idea yes yeah so what What attracted you to move into Foreign Affairs I mean I know you did a bachelor
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degree in in languages and and literacy you know literacy I mean I what what
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motivated you to move into Foreign Service excellent that is a long a long story
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but I'll say it what happened is as a young girl of seven years old in the
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rural part of Kenya growing up on a Sunday morning I was cleaning the house and we used to play and then my brothers
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were cleaning the house my brother pushed me and I fell down I broke my teeth out of my teeth and on
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waking up I slapped my brother so hard and when I slapped him
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he started to nosebleed and my mom when he came to the scene I saw tears coming
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from my eyes so I felt pain through the blood of my
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brother and the tears from my mother's my mother's um my mother's tears and
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within that short duration of time my world came to a standstill I receded in a corner and I prayed to God and I told
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God if you get me out of this I will never ever fight or lay hand on somebody and
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my world was shifted I think God shifted my world to the extent that I don't fight I don't like conflict and I began
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to now play pay attention to the plights of people so even in my home I'm the mediator when
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people are having crisis so as I grew up then I realized that this is the path
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that probably have been called to do but based on that vulnerability that I went through of being in uncertain situation
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and helplessness without hope so that to a greater extent now began to show me
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how to solve problems without using physical confrontation or
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or fight through non-conventional means then when I went to to undergrad for the
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University I joined the model United Nations Model United Nations so Model United
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Nations they follow the activities of the U.N but from the youth perspective
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and uh I was the the head Delegate for France that was that is the time when when there was the sustainable
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development Summit that was coming to South Africa yeah and then so in the
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process of of looking at the the sustainable development goals that is when I discovered now that diplomacy was
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the the thing for me so from there then I went to to to graduate school and
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enrolled in The Institute of diplomacy and did foreign I did the diplomacy and
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international relations and I joined Foreign Service and I've never looked back wonderful and and what do what excites
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you most about Foreign Service and serving your country in Dubai I mean what is most exciting about that for you
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first word fascinated me most was when Kofi Annan delayed was the Secretary
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General of United Nations and as a young girl I would wake up there was a there was a um a program on on CNN called
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diplomatic license and I would diligently wake up to watch Kofi Annan
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move from East Timor to Israel to Benghazi name it and I was
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like this is very nice and then I was like I started paying attention now to world world issues so when I joined
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Foreign Affairs it's almost like this is where I wanted to be for me and now for my current role in
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Dubai we are looking at issues of the consulate now we're dealing with the Kenyan people there's a large group of
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people in Dubai so they are we are dealing with issues of documentation job creation strategy for engagement
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bilaterally between Kenya and the UAE yeah that's very exciting Mercy how have
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you found that from a leadership point of view dealing with you know the desires and aspirations and the cultural
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aspects of what shaped you and influenced you you know coming from Kenya and working in the Middle East I
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mean how has that been a challenge and have you been able to navigate that
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it's very interesting you know I'm coming to I came to the Middle East in 2019 and the most fascinating thing is
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especially here is the given that the world has flattened so the boundaries
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are broken so because of the broken boundaries we have in common Global problems
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when you have common Global problems it means now the challenges are shared but
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we deal with them inwardly as countries or nation states so what does that potent for us it means that now even our
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diplomacy or our foreign policy orientation steps up in terms of advocating for
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multilateralism so that we rally convergence of ideas in solving common Global problems so it's very exciting
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because because you can see for example from the pandemic of the covid-19 pandemic
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just one incident in one China and the world has come to stand still and our
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world now we have to change now I can talk to you through Zoom which is very easy so technology to a greater accent
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has been accelerated that leads us into another you know set of questions I mean
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if we think about the complexity and challenges of the world today what are the kind of three big challenges that
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keep you awake at night from a leadership point of view number one is is the inequality
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and inequality in in various points as you know there are there are a number of
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a number of people who are going hungry without food there are people who are staying in
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refugee camps their children who are not going to school there is a huge population that
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do not have access to health care they are young African people because of
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lack of employment they're both their boarding boats crossing the Red Sea to come to Europe so those Myriad of
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complexities within the continent and even within the the countries for me makes me Restless makes me Restless that
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is one number two there's the issue of of of governance the issue of governance and Leadership
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so you find uh most of our our authority figures today
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are still using technical lenses to fix challenges that requires people to be
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adaptive so it's a responsibility for for for authority figures to provide direction
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to set Norms but because of the Brokenness of the boundaries agenda is
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set from even non-state attackers non-state actors so it becomes really a challenge even as authority figure to be
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able to harness or even contain contain your people in providing those
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functionalities that I've laid before you so I think this is one of the the
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most trying times for leaders that now recall requires them to step back a
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little bit and see and be able to compartmentalize what are the issues that requires technical fix how can we
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build lenses and partnership what are the issues that requires people to change their behaviors their values
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their mindset their attitudes and they're giving them that work of bringing that change that they want to
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see and then the the aspect of creating the enabling environment where Innovation can Thrive and that means
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security whether it's personal security food security all the Securities to make people feel
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like they are safe they are protected they can innovate they can grow and
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bring what they want to see yeah I mean we're sitting with with you know
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with a multitude of complexity and I I guess one of the questions that come up in sharing you know with you sharing a
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lot of these issues what do you think is unique about this time Mercy I mean the
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world has gone through a process of evolution you know we've we've had these big challenges in the world before what
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do you think is unique about this time this moment what is what is unique about this moment
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is is the the acceleration of technology which is disruptive so that has changed
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a lot how people operate and because we we the technology has intruded our space
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or intrusion of Technology then even the the Personal Touch of humanity has gone
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low to the extent that even relationships are superficial
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leadership with empathy being being able to to extend uh love and compassion to
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people who deserve it and even just acknowledging the humanity from a dignity perspective so that is what is
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unique so that to some extent because of the intuition of technology and acceleration of it then you can say that
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the love component has become low or diminishing because everything now
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in the digital space whether I want to transact money communicate do work
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everything is in a digital space so if we neglect the the old
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old aspects of our relations that have held us or glued us together then it's going to be a challenge and that's why
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you you you bear me witness that there are a lot of mental challenges that people are going through
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of course and of course exacerbation by the pandemic and having to rely on technology and socially distance
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ourselves but given this current moment I mean and
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these issues and of course the world of work has changed and the world of leadership is changing too what do you
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think is the future of leadership having the future of leadership for me is adaptive exercising adaptive leadership
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and what do I mean by exercising adaptive leadership being able as a leader authority figure
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to compartmentalize issues that require technical fix and issues
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that requires to be solved in adaptive way that is that is changing people's
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behavior attitudes mindset values belief system and giving people the the work of
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bringing that change that they want to see that for me number two also exercising
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leadership with empathy and that requires grounding on values
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which now Builds on to the idea of recognition of the Dignity of humankind
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and then the aspect of of humility to acknowledge the diversities of people
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to acknowledge the stages of development that they aim to acknowledge the
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challenges they are facing and the gaps that they are in and then you see how do we rally together to bridge the gap to
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give hope and and to to give them that enabling environment and ecosystem that
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even in their vulnerable position this hope that there is a better tomorrow [Music]
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talk about one of our favorite mentors and icons I mean if we think of adaptive
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leadership and having core values that evoke our Humanity but also our humility
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we both share 11 passion for Nelson Mandela who we know was a great icon not
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only for South Africa but for the world I know you've had a number of Mandela moments but could you share with us what
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your big Mandela moment was how did Madiba as we call them in Africa shape
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you or influence you or inspire you on your leadership Journey what was that
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moment and how did he shape that yes you said rightfully that I've had Mandela
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moment the first one you know growing up with a strict father my father was very
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strict and growing up as a young girl in our house rules were never
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expressly written but they were implicit so that now you needed to to scan your
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environment and Be watchful and allowed to know that this is no this is right
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mm-hmm why because my dad was was was a strict disciplinarian hours that helped
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me in my Mandela moment um for for me that aspect of of the
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strictness of my father and the scanning of the environment has enabled me even in my exercising of leadership to be
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able to scan the environment where I am you constantly see things as they unfold
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pick lessons that that are relevant failures that pitfalls that I need to
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avoid and areas that I need to enhance so when Mandela was in prison one of the
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the key things that that he did that was very remarkable for me is he studied a
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lot yes studied a lot and he is sucked in a lot like I called in fact they called
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Robin Island you know the Robben Island University um yeah you know not only for Madiba but
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many of the other young prisoners that came onto the island yes but even while
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he was in the prison he was he kept a breeze of what was happening outside of
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the prison yes and and in that process he also worked with people that they were in
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prison with whether device strategies to solve their problems to represent them
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and they was able to take stand that is one of my my Mandela moments another
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Mandela moment for me was as you've seen the when when you find yourself in a
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situation where you are unable to build alliances or Partnerships or
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because of your strong value system or your grounding people tend not to agree with you then either you find yourself
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you either take a stand or you go with the crowd and sometimes the stand that you take might not be appealing to
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majority so it will be a lonely walk and and during this lonely walk then you
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have to to to to to rely on the values that ground you so for me that also is a
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is a memorable moment because Mandela the bulk of his life he led a lonely life
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that's true during that lonely period he was able to acquire knowledge I think he
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also understood the magnitude of the weight that he carried on behalf of South Africans and the hopes and the
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dreams that they had on him and when he got out he realized
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that for him to move forward he had to forget and forgive
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and he struggled that reconciliation between the mind as he says and his heart and that is what I constantly
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strive to do even where I'm offended I tried in order not to carry the baggage
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of my oppressors or the offenders then I have to to forgive and say I have for me
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to move on with what I want to do which is the focus on the ball then I have to forget the past
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but the forgiveness was was as you write he said a big part of it so in Madiba
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and his leadership what really stands out for you is being unique about him and and why and how do you think that's
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relevant given the challenges you outlined earlier you know how's that relevant for today
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so I have for Madiba I will say three things number one it was very bold and
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courageous yeah and it took stand on issues that that that he believed in
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to some extent even he's quoted to have said those are the things that even is prepared to die for
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which I found very very very fascinating so that's that when when he was asked
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about the issues of Fidel Castro and his affiliation with Muammar Gaddafi said no
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no no don't be twisted here your enemies are not my enemies that for me was very
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profound that in your engagement with the people in your exercise of leadership you have to identify what are
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the key issues that are aligned to the values your spouse what are the values
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that these people bring to you and to the agenda that you are carrying so that you don't begin to
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send away people because of the standards that you've been set for so in
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another way is set to Zone parameters of doing things and in his invitation to
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the world you he invited People based on what he had said so it's like you
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welcome the people in his space as opposed to fitting in other spaces and conforming
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that for me is very profound another thing was his ability to to reconcile
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yes when you form the the rainbow Nation and there was a lot of pressure from
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from the black South African who had hopes and they felt like with Mandela's entry that was their time to be
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liberated and feel free and that was the turn of the other parties to be oppressed but he said no no
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we are going to to form the rainbow nation and it's going to start with him that for me is is a key ingredient that
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most leaders are lacking especially in in a process where an electoral system
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is a winner take it all so it becomes like are you talking about the issue of reconciliation or the fact
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that it started with himself or both for him to start with himself he had to reconcile
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you know you have to first lead by example you you reconcile with your status for you to now go out and
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convince other people that this is the course that I'm taking because and that that brings me to the second one of
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leading by example of course you don't tell people to to do things that you
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will not do so you ask people to do things that you will do and those are my guiding
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principle when I give people tasks I don't give them something I cannot do
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myself I said that can I be able to do it if I can't then it will be improper
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to task somebody to do something that they cannot do and they push them to their Frontier of incompetence and you
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watch them to struggle then the third thing was the the aspect of recognizing
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the Dignity of humankind yeah it not relate with you based on your position
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or your role but you viewed you as a person fast
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so for me that that is also very important in leadership in the sense that he listened he listened to to views of
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people intensely intensely and then he responded
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meaning as as a leader for you to be able to listen to the people you have to
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believe in the value of that Humanity to even give them the
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audience to listen to what they are saying and even if you are differing with them you do it with dignity and
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what part of his leadership do you think um would have most impact what we need to do
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today different that Mandela did and probably is one Legacy that we carry
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along other than that that dignity is the ability to take a stand and provide
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Direction many people sit on the fence when they expected to step up and give the direction of the guidance
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that is needed so they they waver they don't have like a stand on on something
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for Mandela it took a stand even if it was even if it was uncomfortable
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with the people who are close to him you take a stand and say yes in as much and that is what I found very interesting
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even with his wife I still don't understand when he said to Winnie that I
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love her but up to this moment we will pathways in as much as I still love her and she's
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the love of my life and stuff but he said we because he looked at the big agenda and realized that it would impact
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on how is going to to help Drive the process forward
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so that that is that is that is one thing that that people need to do today there are issues that will push you to
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the corner even to the people that you love but how are you going to separate your role from self to move the process forward
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many people fall authority figures fall on the Wayside because of inability to
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separate the role and the self of course of course that that one we
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need that is one thing we need today so Mercy can you share with us an example of where you've taken a stand in
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your current world of work and applaud that lesson in in taking a stand and can
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you just share with us an example you know in I mean you you have a difficult role and it requires a lot of diplomacy
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and you know that that is the nature of your role but is there an example where
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you've taken a stand that has been a lesson that you've learned and applied
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that's a very good question and based on what I've told you with tech stands every day if you're
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Guided by values if you are your moral life is value driven then every decision
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you make every step of the way you take a stand on something and sometimes it
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might not go well even in terms of your career trajectory because it means if you are able to
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speak truth to power in in a way that does not argue well or
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you are able to driven by your value inability to Rally towards a cause then
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chances are you are going to be relegated to periphery or when you come out as a very strong person then it
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means where issues that requires some kind of not serious stance then you are
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left outside and that can be a lonely process do you have a real example you can share with us I have a real example
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the latest one there is an organization that we are co-creating called the Global Peace Network so we we are trying
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to co-create finding solutions for world peace is a project within the organization so what happened was
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we we were doing what is called the 4D mapping and we wanted to do something
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unconventional because the world peace has been elusive for a long time so we were seven of us
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so we the four of us were told we are going to do the presentation on behalf of the 19 people that we're working with
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the the first person introduced what 3D modeling is then I was to map the actors
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and one one of the issues that was a bit tough was we thought that the humanity mankind man
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as an actor in terms of now the different segments of personalities within a conflict so there are people
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who have been in the conflict epicenter there are people who have been privileged to conflict their people who
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have been involved in Conflict through mediation there are people who are funding conflicts
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okay and then there is conflict itself and then there are people who are
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hell-bent to see conflict continue because that is how they run their business so when when when we presented
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this this uh complaint and said let's let's look at it from the different uh perspectives so we we listed
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all the actors within a conflict after we finish that because of uh the
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the idea that probably if you look at conflict from with the human lens
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because whether you take you when you take government you take resources their people behind these faces
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so that did not did not go well with the certain segment of people so when we are going to the to the next the next
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meeting of now actualizing so reactualizing the 3D model
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they they decided to to put me aside so when we did now the mapping and
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all was in place then we said wait a minute so where is the the organization that we are finding
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because it was missing in the map and we've done everything else so that is that is one example where when you when
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you when your ideas don't find place or when people find you you're framing to be
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different from what they expect they will not invite you to the table can you share with us what you did in that
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instance what I did in that instance one of the things that I've learned from from my lessons and training of adaptive
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leadership in that emotive moment I don't act I stepped back and internalized and try
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to analyze what is going on here what are the group dynamics what are the issues what are people avoiding so I let
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it go so now when when we met the second time when now the the team is presenting
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then is when I spoke the issues and it made sense but I died forced myself into
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the Preparatory process probably it would not have it would not have been
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taken on board one of the things that I'm learning is is you have to face the work but you also have to meet people
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you start from where people are
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so just have a bit of fun right now I mean just a couple of of one-liners just
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a brief one-line answer tell us what is your favorite city or country what is it and why you'll be
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amazed that my favorite city is Nairobi Kenya yeah and why because I have sentimental
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attachment to it I've been lived there and grown there and do because of the you know Nairobi
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means Cool Waters it's a Maasai word that means cool water okay and then it's also they sit in the
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Sun so imagine if you have the sun and water the growth Innovation the opportunity
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that exists with those two so that's that's for me and then another thing Nairobi is the only city probably in the
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world that's uncorrected that has a national park within the city center
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wow yes where you can you can see the big five and then you can have breakfast
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you have breakfast with giraffes in the morning you don't get that even inside of you we don't I have to put this on my
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visiting list please that should be on your buck at least so what is your
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favorite childhood memory my favorite childhood memory was on Saturday the Sabbath
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because that was the day first of all you wake up to the smell of chapati my favorite food is chapati I don't know
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whether you know chapati I don't what is it chapati is the kind of it's made of
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wheat flour but it's very nice probably when you when you come it's not like cake but it's sort of like bread but
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made of wheat flour brown sugar yeah so on Saturdays I told you my parents were
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very strict but on Saturday you got away with many things you are never punished
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you walk up to the smell of Japan you used to go to church on Saturday so it was the Sabbath experience that was my
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favorite childhood memory that's awesome and what I mean we know you've dedicated
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you're like well you've spent 19 years in in foreign affairs and the Foreign Affairs Ministry and and then you know
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serving your country but what did you think you would be when you grew up apparently when I was a child I thought
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I would be a doctor so the the doctor narrative changed based on the that
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America yeah medical doctor keeping people in the hospital so one day I had a bout of
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malaria and I was taken to the hospital and three things
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stood out for me and I realized no remember I told you the sight of blood and tears I got injection so I cried it
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was painful for me and during those days they were using big needles syringes
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yeah injectable so it was painful and of course the smell of medicine in the
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hospital so as we were we were getting into the entrance of the hospital
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that site alone makes me well to trigger back that memory that you had
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yes it did because you know when when you were young and you walk into a hospital as you wait
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to see the doctor you'll hear the cries of babies being injected you see people with with syringes and like oh I'm going
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to be the next one and sure that day I was given injection and it was not
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no I need to find Space somewhere wow and what is your favorite book
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the Bible the Bible you not discovered that the Bible has solutions for every problem
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that could be could be debatable but even when you look at the foreign
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policy matters or issues of international relations and you're able to relate them in the biblical even with
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leadership and Kings if you read the book of kings and how the Kings and the
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mistakes they made some of them you see them today and you're like wow these things were fulfilled I'm going to
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digress slightly why do you think we haven't learned those lessons and keep on repeating them
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why we haven't learned the less because we don't treat them you know we are looking for Solutions outside there but
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we have Solutions within ourselves and that is where the the challenge is and
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and that is why for me adaptive leadership is key in the sense that it opens you to see things
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that are within yourself that are solution to a problem you are looking for like for example I don't know
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whether you've heard of what just sent possible yeah uh it gives you possibilities and when you look at at
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that that those possibilities sometimes you realize that there are things that you buy stepped backward
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there are things that you have that you have but yeah that you've watching them as a value or you tend to sidestep them
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or ignore them because you are thinking that the grass is greener on the other side of course I'm biased maybe because
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of my love for God but I've realized that most of the theories the solutions
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are found there and to that point what is your favorite quote my favorite quote is is
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interesting it's by an American poet there's a lady called Ila wheeler Wilcox
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and she said that nothing can deter or
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hinder The Firm result of a determined soul
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nothing can stop a soul that is determined to do something
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and that has been my Mantra going forward when you believe in something and you are determined and you do what
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it takes two says Impossible Is Possible
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but that that reminds me of you know when Mandela said it always seems impossible until it's done precisely
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what do you think Mandela would say three things briefly
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he would say to our generation today to our generation Mandela would say be humble in your
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exercise of leadership humility humility I think Vandella would say
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you have to to have an opinion or take a stand on an issue
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yeah and the third thing I think Mandela would say to me
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that you must have a course to fight for believe in something take a stand be
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courageous be humble yes we know he loved children and we know
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that he really missing children in this 27 years in prison what do you think he would say to our
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younger generation to our Rising young Stars I think to the younger generation
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education will be key I think Mandela believed in education as a liberty of
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mine so tell them to pursue education at all costs I think Mandela would tell the
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younger generation to listen and to listen to listen and learn glean from
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the lessons remember in his early childhood he used to sit with his father in those meetings yeah just and then
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suck it in so there's a dog father the king king of yes
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it would listen and just suck it in and then probably the third thing you dealt
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to the children yeah yeah no there's a there's a
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valuable lesson so Missy you're you're a remarkable woman who's had a
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fantastic career three to five years where do you see yourself
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that's a very interesting question hmm three to five years
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hmm interesting I'll put it at top foreign policy expert for government top foreign
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policy and ultimately if we had no time frame on that where do you see yourself
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I see myself with Antonio Gutierrez job to to achieve what goal
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to to bridge the the things that give me sleepless night reduce inequality but
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Trace fairness come up with strategies to increase enrollment in schools you know the
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sustainable development goals the challenge that we have and is a
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we've been setting goals and when we are almost at the challenge we revise them again so we started with
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Agenda 21 remember gender 21 yeah then we came up with Millennium
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development goals eight of them then we decided Millennium development goals are
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not sufficient so we came up with 17 sustainable goals I don't know what will happen after but when we were doing the
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agenda 2063 which is the blueprint for the African continent we also came up with with Flagship projects which are
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also on course yeah and we are we were envisioning a continent that is at peace with itself
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being able to feed itself being able to connect and trade among itself and we
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have those African Continental featured area we've dreamed of silencing the guns
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we dreamed of providing electricity to all the countries connectivity and some
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of these processes are ongoing which is encouraging they could not be at maybe the best that were they were envisage
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but they're making remarkable moves so I believe that with them a different lens
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or a different perspective than it would be we are yet to see because a lot is changing imagine where we were 2020 and
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where we are now a lot has changed I don't know what will happen in in three to five years I don't know what will
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happen in 20 years because their cars people are going to the Moon artificial intelligence is here with us robots are
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being off work leadership is being disrupted upside down so we just have to
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be focused and to be a step ahead and not lose the values that glue us
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together for building relationship human dignity and and friendships like these ones that
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we have things that makes us human [Music]
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yeah yeah I mean there's a wonderful takeaways I just have one question you think the United Nations is ready for
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you I don't know like Mandela said now you you check a stand and check your parts
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it's not whether they are ready for me is a question of what value can I add I
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don't even have to get to that level if I can be able to add value where I am yeah well you know what I believe in is
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is the small incremental credits from where I am if I'm able to change the
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mindset of a group of people one at a time for me it's okay I don't even have to be at the health because there's a
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lot of a lot of influence with informal Authority than formal Authority of course of course there's a lot of
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influence when you have informal Authority because you have the leeway to play with many things so for me that
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becomes critical yeah that it doesn't matter who I become or what I become but can I be able to
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change a generation at a time yeah absolutely that for me this is one
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if there's one thing you you could have you could go back and do differently in
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your own leadership journey I mean specifically not you know is there a specific thing that if you could go back
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and do differently you would what what is that to to engage more with authority figures and speak to power in a way that
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finds space and in that finds space to bring the desired change
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you know what one of the things that I said that is interesting is because of the strictness of my father that to some
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extent in my developmental process hindered my ability to negotiate with authority
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so until I discovered that that the the waters that I'm carrying from my father's strictness after giving it back
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to him then now I'm more liberated I can speak to truth to power I can negotiate
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with authority I can be part of the change that I want to see which is liberty and that for me is comforting in
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the sense that once you are grounded on your values then regardless of where
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life takes you you will stand the precious of this world
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yeah I mean that's very profound and I I mean it takes me to another point that our our love story is our leadership
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story really in a way it's very interesting that you've drawn off this you know you've noticed this
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relationship with your father and how you need it to liberate yourself from that to step into more of your leadership
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role and be bond by Authority it's liberating when you discover something
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that has been hindering you from doing things which you wish you had done earlier then that would have meant you'd
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have negotiated certain things much much earlier the younger age and that would not have limited your
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ability to do certain things yeah but that note that is not an excuse that
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you're stuck yeah well I guess that's one of the benefits of experience and aging you
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know that uh having some experience and uh about you know yeah it kind of helps
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us evolve and develop final three takeaways for our audience my three final takeaways is from
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Mandela's perspective diversity management respect other perspectives diversity management
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number two inclusivity yeah in activity in representation
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number three I will talk about um the idea of separating role from self uh
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wrong from self very critical when you harness and then being able to do the
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three what I call the three things that that authority figures do provide Direction
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said Norms protect people and especially Voices From Below
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and that is where that is missing but as Mandela says be humble humility is a
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virtue take a stand on issues don't be offensive and
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recognize the Dignity of humankind of course your engagement with them because
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one thing that I carry with me even in my current work when you make policies
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with the frames of vulnerabilities lenses it changes how you structure
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those strategies how you structure your intervention process because you realize clearly that
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there's a lot of weight on you as authority figure to be able to
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decide somebody's fate and that's what leaders do of course that are able to either influence shape but also
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determine so it's such an honor to be in that position but if you don't understand the magnitude of the wage if
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you don't understand the times and Seasons you're operating in if you don't understand the needs
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from the lenses of the person you are deciding their faith then chances are
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that you you you might not be the best in your educational
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your own yeah that you carry the aspirations the
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hopes the dreams of other people so that you don't interrupt the ball so you keep focusing yeah well Mercy my friend has
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been so wonderful talking to you today and uh you certainly are a woman of
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Courage of humility he takes a stand I feel so blessed and privileged to to share this
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conversation with you and thank you for sharing your thoughts and wisdom with our audience out there and I so look
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forward to us reconnecting again soon thank you very much and for this opportunity and I look forward to
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working closely with you and anything that you need in terms of exercising
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leadership information and we hope that we can do our best I have a little
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to make a make an impact for our generation of course
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and for our next past adaptive leadership so critical in the world today
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many will most have heard the term adapt or die for some it's the Hollywood
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fantasy of James Bond movies for countless more it's waking up to the
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harsh realities in this radical and rapidly changing world
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it is difficult daunting and in fact dangerous when change requires that you
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challenge people's current realities their attitudes their beliefs and their
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norms most people fear extreme loss when you push for Change and the more they have
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the more they will fear they will lose and yet your very survival and life in
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business and in the world today depends on your ability to adapt and to
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exercise adaptive leadership to step out of the familiar comfort zone
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and to challenge the realities not only of others but your own realities too I
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met my good friend Mercia Tino Dongo at Harvard kindy school and the Adaptive
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leadership program with remarkable professors Ron Heifetz and Marty Linsky
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her stories her insights and her wisdom helps us expand on more of the Adaptive
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leadership principles firstly we bust some of the leadership myths
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contrary to popular opinion leadership is not a position it is not a title and
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nor should it be confused with authority instead leadership is a practice it is
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action we exercise leadership secondly she helps us Define adaptive leadership
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or as Professor Ron Heifetz defines it it is the practice of mobilizing people
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to tackle tough challenges and thrive and lastly she helps us draw the
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distinction between Technical and adaptive challenges
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so often people in powerful positions misdiagnose the problem and try and fix an Adaptive challenge
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with the technical solution what I mean by that
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well let me give you an example when Nelson Mandela came out of prison
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in February 1990 if he had misdiagnosed and misanalyzed
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South Africa's transformation problem as being simply a technical problem a
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problem of changing the old apartheid laws into a modern constitutional democracy and had failed to diagnose and
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analyze the Adaptive challenge namely the challenge of changing the heads the
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hearts and souls of all South Africans not only the majority of South Africans
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but everybody in changing their beliefs their attitudes and their Norms he would
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not have succeeded in helping mobilize the country to support and hold
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prosperous and a peaceful first democratic election
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which by the way was held on April the 27th 1994. it took more than four years for
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Madiba to help effect that transition not only the technical solution but to
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help mobilize the people of South Africa all South Africans across multiple deep
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divides so in summary Technical Solutions do not solve
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adaptive challenges and adaptive challenges if unattended to
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can and will disrupt the Technical Solutions what is critical is to draw
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the distinction between the two in the case of South Africa we needed both
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